Feng Shui and Mr. Wrong
It happened again. A client called me in tears because she found out that her live-in boyfriend had recently gotten another woman pregnant. She thought something was wrong with the home that she recently bought and moved into. I had consulted on the selection of the new home and I knew the feng shui was fine. The problem was the deceitful boyfriend. The new space supported her and the Relationship Corner was done simply but perfectly. What had happened was that the energy of the new space would not tolerate a cheater to be there. When she calmed down she did admit that it had been amazingly easy for her to find out about the affair. As far as I was concerned, her angels were helping her to get rid of Mr. Wrong so that she’d be available when Mr. Right comes along, and that’s what I told her.
In Feng Shui for Love & Money I discuss several other instances of this phenomena where a partnered straight woman (in a troubled relationship) breaks up with the guy she’s been living with immediately after our feng shui consultation. If I had not had those past experiences, I wouldn’t have known to cut right through my current client’s sob story and tell her to be grateful that the jerk is gone. Some guys are not in a place in their lives where they can feel comfortable in a home with good harmonious feng shui. Some of them are seething in anger and it’s best to let them do that solo.
I also told my current client that she was fortunate to have found out before getting a venereal disease from him. If he got someone pregnant, he certainly wasn’t practicing safe sex and was actually endangering her life. That’s a hard thing to hear, I’m sure—but it’s ever so true. I boldly asked her how many times had she cheated on him (knowing what the answer would be) and she said, “Never once.”
Well, what about Ms. Wrong? Well, so far in my career I haven’t had an instance of that happening. I believe that probably says something about our society as much as anything.
Article Comments
nandajurela
April 8, 2022 10:14 amInteresting case, thanks for sharing… I am glad that your client figured out so fast that this boyfriend was not partner or husband material and that he wouldn’t be around for a long time.
Your statement is admirably clear: “Some guys are not in a place in their lives where they can feel comfortable in a home with good harmonious feng shui. Some of them are seething in anger and it’s best to let them do that solo.”
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Yeah!
I too have observed that “seething in anger” and dissonance in places that felt harmonious and celebratory and sweet. I concluded that that was inner stress surfacing, a sense of being out of place, either due to unworthiness or the assertion that expectations will not be met (“under any circumstances”), and a pretty obvious sign of incompatibility.
Who does not feel good in a place of good feng shui? Someone who doesn’t belong there.
As you suggest, the earlier people grasp that a situation is not right for them, the easier they can let go of it, and clear the path to conditions and people that are benign, friendly and loving.
clearenglebert
April 8, 2022 11:53 amVery right on comment!